Nice guy vs jerk in relationship, and why jerk always win.

"I treated my girlfriend so nice and yet she still leaves me. What’s wrong with me?"

Those heartbroken must have asked themselves this question before. Don’t blame it on the girls; blame it on yourself for being too good to them, till it reached the annoying stage. That is how annoying some men can be. 

What did you do that annoyed them? 
a) Call them often because you miss her badly?
b) Always ask her what she wants instead of leading?
c) Accepts her demand and manipulative requests?
d) Making her the boss in your life?
e) Putting your needs aside to accommodate hers?
f) Acting weak?


But aren’t the above examples of what a good boyfriend should do?.....NO, the fact is you should not.


Now, you are confused? Link this scenario with Why women often date jerks and guys who are emotionally unavailable, and don't date "nice guys" who would do anything for them.

What’s weird is why the girl chooses jerk over a nice guy most of the time?


Answer: Because the jerk didn’t annoyed the girl. =p 


Wussies - A person regarded as weak or timid. 


Why wussies comes into the picture? Because being a wussy can be annoying to woman and women aren’t attracted to wussies. 


Now that definition at least gives you a rough idea of why all the nice things that you’ve done for women result in her pulling away. The nice thing that you’ve done (wuss behaviour) is annoying to woman and again, women aren’t attracted to wussies.  


Take note on this, sometimes men have to do things that seem to be "inconsiderate" in order to give women what they really want (which is a man who is in control of himself, the situation, and often her). 


Doing "nice" things for a woman doesn't make her any more likely to feel attraction for you. In fact, most of these things backfire.

Even though "jerks" and "bad boys" don't treat women well, it doesn't mean that women don't feel attraction for them. Believe it or not, women often report feeling incredibly attracted to these kinds of men.


The difference between a jerk and a nice guy, aside from their character is that jerks understand how attraction works, maybe without them realizing it but literally any guy can attract women if you understand how attraction works. 


Any guy can use the secrets that jerks and bad boys have discovered and used without being abusive or mean. Then, a woman will be far more likely to stay around.